How to Tell Your Crush You Like Them (Without Ma Tenayelou El Donya)

By: Marie

When I was assigned this topic, I got a flashback of every stupid thing I did to tell my 6th-grade crush I like them. And let me tell you, I wanted eno el ard tensha2 w tebla3ni. From accidentally-on-purpose-running into them in the school’s corridor to playing truth or dare on Whatsapp to know if they have a crush (please tell me I’m not the only one, haha),  the amount of habal and 3abat is just ugh. I was afraid and terrified to tell them directly. And I know a lot of you are as well. 

As much as having a crush is an amazing feeling as much as it’s terrifying. 

That being said, I decided to help you (and myself) by writing about how to tell your crush you like them, without ma tenyaelo el donia 3ashan el mawdou3 mesh na2es. 

DROP A FEW HINTS. 

You’re probably feeling anxious and can’t picture yourself going to your crush and telling them about your feelings. But what about dropping a few hints? Make eye contact, tease them, try to talk to them. You can also send them a flirty text like a pickup line or something. 

BE CLEAR ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL. 

Before telling them how you feel you should first be clear about your feelings. You should be serious and ready to get into a relationship. In other words, do you really want to be with them in a relationship or just 3ashan atsala? 

ACKNOWLEDGE HOW YOU’D FEEL IF YOU DIDN’T TELL THEM. 

Consider how you would feel if your crush never knew about your feelings. Will you be happy, sad, confused, hurt? When you find an answer, you’ll know what to do. 

CHOOSE THE RIGHT TIME AND PLACE. 

A right moment and a right place are so important when you want to tell your crush about your feelings. Their answer will vary according to the place and the people they’re surrounded with. You can’t just go when they are with their friends or in big large groups. They could feel embarrassed and get stressed. A quiet and calm place may be a good idea. 

SET A DEADLINE. 

Don’t just say I’ll do it tomorrow, and then after tomorrow and so on until you run out of time. Yes, you should be ready but in reality, you’ll never be fully ready. Try not to let your fears hold you back and deal with them. Because if you are planning on waiting until all your fears disappear, well sorry to disappoint you, you’ll never tell them in your whole freaking life. 

PRACTICE WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY. 

A key to being confident when you talk to your And it’ll help you too. You’ll feel less stressed and it’ll calm down your anxiety. As stupid as it may sound, stand in front of the mirror and start practicing your words. 

BE READY FOR ANY ANSWER. 

You should be ready to hear any answer. Even if it’s not the one you hoped for. And before you go, you must understand that you can’t control other people’s feelings. You’re doing this FOR YOU and only YOU to get these feelings off your chest. Never question your self-worth because someone doesn’t love you back. It’s a sad reality but sometimes the people we like don’t like us back, it’s painful but there is nothing we can do about it. 

Ohh, that was deep, haha. 

Yup, that’s it. That’s all I have for you. 

I hope this helps. 

byeeeee

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