What Every Girl Wants to Hear After She’s Been Hurt by a Fuckboy

By: Amina ElFarouk

Who cares what he thinks? Who gave him the right to break your heart? Go back out there and kick his ass. Show him what he missed out on. Fix your hair, get your nails done and go shopping. Watch when they see how perfect you have become, they will come crawling back to you, he will feel like crap, much like he made you feel at one point. He will regret leaving you, just as much as you regret liking him and (stupidly) thinking he was the one.

Remember guys like him do not deserve beautiful and smart girls like you and I. He is so basic. He was just another typical fuckboy. He asked you out and then you went for him because you thought he was a genuine guy, only for him to play with your mind and use you. Like, who does he think he is? Just quit blaming yourself.

I know I am telling you all this and it is going through the other ear because you are so upset about that jerk who broke your heart. Trust me, it is going to get easier. You are going to realize how pathetic he is eventually and when you do, you are going to feel like a fool.

I don’t blame you. We think someone is amazing and then they do something stupid and then we feel like idiots for trusting them. Everyone goes through that feeling. All I can say is: remember this feeling because when you will be looking at other guys, it will keep you grounded, which will prevent you from looking at a whole nation of fuckboys.

You are beautiful, smart and amazing and you will find a genuine guy who will cherish you and love you forever and ever. He is somewhere out there and he needs an amazing girl like you. So, get up and find him. Grief is important for any relationship, but don’t let it control you. Cry about the fuckboy who broke your heart, however, remember that not all guys are like him.

You may be thinking “I actually fell for one of those douchebags?” Yes. Yes you did.

Every woman thinks they’ll be the one to change the guy they’re with. Who doesn’t love a challenge? Well, I’m a sucker for a challenge and a glutton for punishment so there I was—heartbroken, puffy-eyed, and feeling like an idiot when it didn’t go as planned.

It all started just how you’d imagine—boy meets girl, girl bats her eyelashes and they exchange phone numbers…yada yada yada.

Clearly, your life was destined for someone better, and I am more than happy to wait for a man who doesn’t need changing in the first place, because that’s the truth, isn’t it? The man of your dreams should have already done all his changing. You don’t want someone you have to “fix” because another girl broke him. If you learn nothing from this mistake, then at least take this with you…if Mr. Fuckboy tells you he doesn’t want a relationship, please listen to him. When you save a week of your life from a tub of icecream, a Friends marathon and a tear-soaked-pillow-case, you’ll be glad you listened.

This is not a movie, don’t be a man’s biggest fan when he can’t even show up to your game. you deserve better sis.

This is what you want to hear, right?

But is it what you need to hear?

Wait fo part 2,

Amina xoxo

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.